Cuddles is one of the best physical manifestations of affection, they involve closeness, show affection and promote happiness. Cuddles produce a hormone that reduces stress and anxiety, which means they also improve your mental well-being. If you tend to avoid hugs or do not know which are the best movements to use, do not worry! With a little bit of technique, hugs will become easy and fun.
Your cuddle buddy may have made it clear that he wants a hug or maybe you take the initiative to start hugging him. In either case, it is best to start slowly. Do not rush your hug, do not jump on your cuddle buddy, no matter how impatient you are. Place a hand on his shoulder, back, or waist to show your intentions. Leave your hand resting for a few minutes or feel it gently.
Make sure your intention is clear. You can put a hand on his shoulder, but that does not necessarily mean that you want to cuddle that person. Stroke his arm to make him understand clearly what you think.
Remember that cuddling is often an activity in their own right and do not necessarily lead to preliminaries. Here is the list of most popular top 10 cuddle positions:
The most classic of all cuddle positions, the spoon is very popular for a good reason: it’s great! The spoon consists of a small and a large spoon. The two buddies are lying on their side, folded over each other. The big spoon is the person behind, and often she wraps her arms around the torso of the teaspoon.
Become aware of your heads. Since your heads are more or less the same size, it is best to shift them slightly. The big spoon can rest her head on the shoulder of the teaspoon or raise it on her arm.
Keep the temperature in mind. The spoon is one of the positions that generate the most heat because there is a lot of physical contacts. The large spoon may need to avoid wrapping your arms around the teaspoon or placing your legs slightly backward to avoid creating a sweat bath.
This is the one of the most popular and popular sleeping position among couples. You hug your cuddle buddy from behind with one arm underneath her neck and the other on top. There is nothing more beautiful and united than a romantic shell, with its two parts that fit perfectly. Cuddling in conchinha gives a sense of security and convenience, besides that means intimacy.
Almost as classic as the full spoon, the half-spoon is made with one person lying on their back and the other, facing her, lying on her side. The person lying on their side will surely put their head on the other person’s chest. Interlace your legs for an even more intimate hug session.
To cuddle in a small space, superimpose yourself. The most imposing person will lie on their backs and the second person will lie directly on their lower body. To avoid suffocation, the person above will slightly shift their body down, so that they can turn their head to the side and rest on the lower part of the chest of the person below.
Put yourself face to face
One of the most romantic hugs positions is when you are lying face to face. You can lie on your stomach and turn your head to one side or lie sideways, depending on your preference. Increase the romance of the atmosphere by holding your hand in the space between your bodies.
The butt “cheek-to-cheek”
In this position, you and your companion are facing different ways, but leaving your lower backs and butt cheeks to be touching. Knees are usually inclined, although you may stretch one of the legs and play footsie if you’re feeling playful. This position indicates your desire to keep a connection with your spouse, but your desire for freedom and sleep is high on your agenda.
Look at the stars
You know, you and your cuddle buddy have gone camping or watching a meteor shower, you want to cuddle, but you both want to see the sky. Lie on your back near each other and weave your legs in a half hug. You can also hold your hands on your chest or between your bodies. Contrary to the name of this position, you can do this under any circumstances and not just looking at the stars.
Your head on his lap
This cuddle is perfect for when you want to talk because you can then look into your eyes. One person will be sitting, while the other will be lying, perpendicular, with his head resting on the knees of the seated person. This gives the seated person the opportunity to play with the person’s hair or to gently stroke their face.
Each one in his side, but with intertwined feet
This position you the couple lie side by side but their legs are put on top each other and sometimes cling together just like “cheek to cheek.” Keep in mind that you might need need to change the position of your leg after a while, if it makes you uncomfortable) The intertwined feet demonstrate complicity between the couple, besides signifying love and commitment, but, worth the warning: passion and love are different feelings!
This position is common in couples who have been married for several years. They are both very independent but have not yet lost the need to make sure that the other is there, by their side. This position does not reveal that there are problems, but only that both elements of the couple do not depend on each other constantly. It means maturity and tranquility.