We encourage our readers to watch our Cuddling the Unspoken short video series. It’s a worth watch for everyone especially who are new to the overall Platonic Cuddling concept!
Cuddling is a part of the Touch Therapy industry. Many people who go through this therapy are definitely not children but they are children in their heart and soul and they know they are missing something but just can’t put their finger on it because it is buried so deep in their subconscious that they can’t readily remember it, until they seek help for that gaping hole, wanting and desire.
The need to be touched or hugged, manifests itself through your insatiable desire to be wanted, appreciated, recognized, needed and desired to the point where you find yourself sacrificing your needs for someone else thinking that by doing so, they will love you back or they will want you and love you.
Sadly, it doesn’t work that way and what it does is really the opposite–deepen your wounds further, that needy behavior; until you recognize that something is wrong and it needs to be fixed NOW!
Being A Child Again
Let’s go back to being a child again. You were innocent. You were dependent on your parents or caregivers to love and take care of you and to raise you to be a healthy, independent thinking, fully functioning human being that can manage on its own as you grow your wings and fly. Touch at that time in your life and in your mind shouldn’t have been earned or transactional; in other words, you shouldn’t have to do something right or well to impress your parents, siblings and others to be touched, hugged or loved.
And when we speak of touch here, we speak of healthy touch. A child as well as an adult instinctively knows when a touch is healthy versus unhealthy and there are many books and resources available online about the differences and maybe soon, we will add value to that archive in the near future.
We at CuddleConnect.com have created these training courses and informational resources to help everyone craving for touch or connection!